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71+ Free Social Problem-Solving Scenarios

Do you have kiddos who struggle with their social problem-solving skills? Teach your students the simple process of how to solve a problem along with having them review how well their solution worked or didn’t work.

Why Teach Problem Solving Skills?

Learning to problem solve is an essential skill that is used not only throughout childhood but also into adulthood. Social problem solving is the ability to change or adapt to undesirable situations that arise throughout our day.

On a daily basis, a child will encounter social problems that they will need to solve.

Anything from:

• arguing with another student
• to hurting a friend’s feelings
• to having a difficult conversation
• working with others

Start with Small Problems

Many of the “problems” children encounter are often small problems which the child may be over-reacting to, such as wanting a different coloring crayon or wanting to be first in line, however, these small problems are still very real to the child.

Practicing problem-solving with these small problems can be a great learning opportunity. Children can practice problem-solving with a small problem which can help them learn how to handle bigger problems in the future.

Problem Solving Importance

Social problem-solving skills are critical to a child’s social interactions, personal and professional relationships. A child’s ability to handle change, cope with stress, and handle challenges improves with a child’s ability to successfully solve social problems.

The ultimate goal is that the child will be able to solve social problems all on their own, but until they can independently solve a problem they will need to learn how to communicate and self-advocate to positively solve their problems.  

Steps to Problem Solving

Children can be taught how to problem solve through a guided process of breaking down the problem and using simple steps to solve the problem.

Learning specific steps to problem-solving can allow children to remember how to solve a problem when they become overwhelmed or stressed.

Although learning to solve a problem independently can take some time and practice it is well worth the investment to have a child who can eventually solve most social situations in a positive manner on their own.

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Problem Solving Form

Teach your students the 4 steps to becoming a social problem-solver.

• Identify the problem. For instance, start by having your student identify the social problem.
• Create three solutions. Also, have your student come up with three different solutions that they could use to solve the problem that they identified.
• Identify the consequences. Then, identify the consequence for each individual solution.
• Pick the best solution.  Lastly, have your student identify which of their three solutions is the best choice Then have your student put into words why they think that solution is the best solution.

Problem Solving Review Form

After your students go through the social problem-solver have them use the social problem-solving review form.

• What happened.  For instance, after your student tried their solution have them explain what happened next.
• Review the results. Also, have your student identify whether or not their solution got them the results they wanted.
• Use this solution again. Furthermore, have your student identify whether or not they would use this solution again in the future to solve the same or similar problem.
• What would you do differently? Finally, have your student explain what they would do differently if they didn’t get the results they wanted or if they wouldn’t use that solution again in the future.

71+ Social Problem Scenarios + 6 Blank Scenarios

Use the 71 social problem-solving scenarios to have your students get great experience practicing how to solve a social problem.

Also, included are 6 blank scenarios. Then laminate them so you can use them over and over again. Therefore, create social problems that the student experiences and needs help solving.

Wordless Video teaching Problem Solving

Watch this super cute wordless animation with your students and have them discuss the problem they see and how to best solve the problem.

Use this as a fun practice example to get your students started towards learning how to problem-solve.

Demonstrate Through Modeling

Model and discuss empathy.

First and foremost, children need to understand how another person might be feeling in a given situation in order to become a good social problem solver. The student needs to learn how to “stand in someone else’s shoes” for a little bit.

One way you can work on this skill is during the reading time you can focus on how a particular character in the story might be feeling.

Ask questions, such as:

• “How do they feel right now?”
• “How would you feel in that same situation?”
• “Why do you think they feel that way?”

Model Problem-Solving Skills as the Teacher

When you are faced with a problem you can solve the problem by thinking aloud for the students to hear how you solve a problem.

You can state the problem, then come up with possible solutions, then identify the possible consequences to each solution, then pick and explain why a solution is the best option.

For example, you could say, “I was hoping to take the class outside for a stress walk around the track before the reading test, but the problem is that it is raining outside. I could still take you outside, but then you will get wet, or we could walk the halls, but then we’d have to be really quiet because there are other classes learning, or we could just skip the walk and take the reading test, but then you might not do as well on the test. I think based on all of those solutions the best solution will be to walk the hallway, but you guys will have to promise to be quiet so that we don’t disrupt other classes.

Modeling the problem-solving process can be very helpful for the students to watch, observe, and later implement themselves.

Teach Communication

Have students communicate how they are feeling.

Teaching your students to share their emotions in a respectful way can improve their ability to problem-solve.

Have students use an “I” sentence frame, such as, “I feel _____ (insert feeling word) when _____ (identify what made you feel that way).”

For example, “I felt sad when Jackson broke my favorite pencil” or “I was mad when I wasn’t picked to be first in line.”

This way students can communicate how they are feeling using honest and open communication. Teaching students to appropriately communicate their emotions can help solve some social problems from the beginning.

Encourage Independency

Encourage your student to problem solve.

If your student is struggling to problem solve independently encourage them to do so using open-ended questions.

• “How could you fix this problem?”
• “What would be a fair solution?”
• “What would happen if you used that solution?”

Let the Student try to Problem Solve Independently

Give your students the space to try and solve their own problems using the guided strategies. Try not to come running to their rescue for every little problem.

Some problems are small and a great opportunity for the student to learn and practice. If an adult does all of the problem solving for a student then what are they really learning?

Give your students the time and space they need to practice solving small problems on their own. Of course, if it is a bigger or more serious problem then have an adult help guide the problem-solving process.

Tell an Adult

Remind your students that there are still some problems that are too big for them to solve on their own and that it is okay to get help from an adult to solve big problems.

For example, if the student doesn’t feel safe, someone is being hurt physically or emotionally, or if they tried to solve a problem independently but it didn’t work and they need help. Let them know that it’s okay to tell an adult.

Teach How to Disagree and How to Make Up

Discuss how to disagree respectfully.

Remind your student that they won’t always agree with their teacher, friends, classmate, or parents and that’s okay. Even the people we like might have different opinions, interests, and likes than we do.

However, even if we disagree with someone we should still treat them with respect. Treating someone with respect means to not call them names, ignore them, yell or hit them. It means that you do try to create solutions that both parties can agree with and to apologize when we hurt others’ feelings.

Role-Play How to Make Up

Practice in everyday life how to make up after a social problem .

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Have your students use task card scenarios to help them identify how they and others might feel in different social scenarios. Be sure to discuss the problem, identify possible solutions, identify the consequences of those possible solutions, and then based on those consequences pick the best solution.

Make social problem-solving a game by telling the students that they are social detectives and that it is their job to use what they know about social rules to help them identify the possible and best solutions.

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Weekly Social Pragmatics Homework

• Weekly problem-solving.   Send home a  weekly homework page  that includes a problem-solving scenario plus an idiom and a conversational practice scenario.

Restorative Justice Problem Solving Flip Book

• Restorative justice graphic visual.  Use this graphic visual to help your student  restore a social relationship  after a social problem.

Self-Advocating Role-Play Scenarios

• Self-advocating in high school.  Teach your high schoolers the process to  self-advocate  for what they need.

5th-12th Grade Life Skills Problem Solving

• Life skills problem-solving.  In addition, this  life skills differentiated bundle  includes a problem-solving lesson plan.

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20 Fun Conflict Resolution Activities for Kids (Printable PDF): Worksheets, Games and Activities

Conflict resolution activities for kids: In this post, we will explore different strategies to help kids deal with conflict. We will also list fun and easy activities that you can add to your conflict resolution lessons or use at home with your kids. And, at the end of the post, you will be able to download some conflict-resolution worksheets.

We all go through conflict and arguments in our everyday life. Learning healthy ways to handle conflict is an invaluable social skill to develop in our kids 

Luckily, there are some really creative ways to help teach kids all about conflict resolution. 

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What is Conflict Resolution

Conflict resolution is the process used to manage or settle our differences using different conflict resolution strategies.

Ideally, we will try to achieve positive outcomes that will satisfy or be beneficial for all parties sides.

Conflict-resolution is similar to problem-solving. In conflicts though, we may see ourselves inundated with strong feelings (anger, frustration, sense of injustice). 

Managing those feelings will be an important first step before we attempt an effective problem-solving strategy .

Conflict Resolution Techniques

There are different classifications that map conflict resolution styles and techniques.

We will briefly review a couple of them because they are a good foundation for understanding conflict resolution’s intricacies.

We’ll start with one of the most popular ones:

The Five Conflict-Handling Modes

Thomas (1976) classifies interpersonal conflict-handling behavior in a model with two basic dimensions:

• Assertiveness (attempting to satisfy our own concerns)
• Cooperativeness (trying to satisfy other people’s concerns too)

This two-dimensional model results in five conflict-handling modes:

• Collaborating (assertive & cooperative)
• Competing (assertive & non-cooperative)
• Compromising (an intermediate level of both assertiveness and cooperativeness)
• Avoiding (unassertive & uncooperative)
• Accommodating (unassertive & cooperative)

In plain words:

• Collaborating: kids look for ways to solve the conflict that bring the best outcome for both parties (the famous win-win situation)
• Competing: we only care about our own goals and are not trying to accommodate the needs of others
• Compromising: we try to look for a solution that may not be our preferred one but is acceptable for all parties involved
• Avoiding: one of the parties may not be as invested in the problem, or prefers to avoid confrontation, and decides to withdraw from the argument
• Accommodating: a kid may choose to neglect their own preferences to satisfy the preferences of the other person

Related Reading: How to Teach Assertiveness to Kids

Other Conflict Resolution Strategies

If we take into consideration the parties involved in a conflict, we could also list the following strategies:

• Negotiation
• Arbitration
• Litigation (which obviously does not apply to our topic here)

What would these look like for our kids: We will focus on how this translates to conflict resolution for kids:

• Negotiation: kids brainstorm satisfactory solutions to their problems and reach a win-win solution. If they can’t find a good solution, they may need to look for a compromise
• Mediation: when kids can’t resolve the conflict on their own, they may need a neutral third party (teacher, parent, caregiver) that helps them come up with a solution rather than imposing it.
• Arbitration: we would arrive here when kids can’t agree, so the neutral third party will need to put the argument to rest deciding on the best solution after listening to both sides.

Why is Conflict Resolution Important for Kids

Children need essential skills like navigating difficult situations to get a peaceful solution.

Benefits to developing conflict resolution skills:

• develop communication skills
• strengthen friendships
• learn goal setting
• solve conflicts in a peaceful way

Conflict resolution requires the development of a number of social skills like:

• problem-solving
• managing negative feelings and big emotions
• collaboration
• flexible thinking
• compromising
• effective communication
• acceptance of diversity

It is when someone in a conflict situation takes the time to consider the emotions of everyone else involved. If kids are able to develop this skill through effective communication and strong emotional intelligence , it will help them solve problems in a more effective way throughout their life. 

There are many ways to help kids grow their ability to resolve conflict that can be fun and informative. Keep reading to learn some of the most popular conflict resolution activities…

Conflict Resolution Strategies for Kids

We’ve covered some well-known conflict resolution strategies, but the following tips are practical advice that will resonate better with kids and their everyday challenges.

• Stay Calm – Take deep breaths and keep your cool before talking.
• Use “I” Statements — Express your feelings without blaming others (e.g., “I feel upset when…”).
• Listen Carefully – Let the other person share their side without interrupting.
• Find Common Ground – Look for what both sides agree on.
• Brainstorm Solutions – Come up with ideas that work for both sides.
• Take Turns – If sharing is the issue, take turns fairly.
• Ask for Help – If the conflict is too big, ask an adult to help solve it.

Healthy Ways to Deal with Conflict

There are healthy and unhealthy ways to deal with conflict.

These are some examples of unhealthy ways kids can use to deal with conflict:

• Not caring about the other person’s view
• Holding a grudge
• Big emotional reactions like getting very angry, shouting, calling names, threatening
• Not being able to compromise
• Giving up on something that is important to you

Examples of healthy ways to approach conflict may include:

• Caring about the other person’s view
• Using your calm and assertive voice to express your feelings
• Not taking things too personally
• Learning to forgive
• Being able to compromise
• Working to find solutions that can accommodate both sides (negotiation)

20 Conflict Resolution Activities for Kids

Wondering how to teach conflict resolution to kids?

Discuss conflict at home or school. Choose topics from the news, a conflict at work, something that happened at school, or even made-up conflict scenarios.

Beyond having conversations, there are some great activities that kids can do individually or as a group to help foster this vital skill. 

Here are 20 of the best conflict resolution activities for kids that can help build the valuable lifelong skill of resolving conflict peacefully.

The activities below fall under the following categories:

Conflict Resolution Worksheets

• Conflict Resolution Activities
• Conflict Resolution Games 

Some of these activities will be a great addition to a lesson plan. 

Conflict resolution is, in essence, a social problem-solving situation. 

In this worksheet, we will follow the steps for problem-solving, with an important addition (calm-down):

• Calm down so that you can deal with the conflict
• What is the problem/conflict
• Listen to the other side
• Think about possible solutions
• Check pros and cons 
• Decide what solution works best for all (win-win if possible)

You can download this conflict resolution worksheet at the end of the post.

This conflict resolution worksheet will work on the different conflict-handling modes:

• competition
• accommodating.

Identify a conflict scenario, and ask your students to write examples for each conflict resolution strategy.

Your downloadable worksheet includes an example of a conflict scenario (Tim & Ellis want the same book) and a blank worksheet (for your own examples).

If you’d like to explore conflict resolution for kids further, I recommend our Conflict Resolution Workbook for Kids .

In this activity, we will try to connect the size of our problem, with different ways of dealing with conflict.

Conflict resolution strategies include negotiation, mediation, and arbitration.

Depending on the type of conflict kids are dealing with, they may be able to deal with that conflict on their own (little problem), or they may need to involve an adult in the situation (mediation/arbitration for big problems)

Fun Conflict Resolution Activities for the Classroom / Groups

4. Conflict Resolution Role Play

On a popsicle stick, write out common conflicts that children face. Once you have around 20, have two students stand in front of the class and act out the situation that the popsicle stick says. 

Once they act it out, have the class discuss different solutions to how the problem could be solved either as a group or in small groups.

Variation: if the different scenarios you are choosing are a bit complicated for the popsicle stick, you can write them down on pieces of paper and put them in a jar or a box.

5. Write it Out

Using the popsicle sticks from the last activity, have the students all draw a different scenario and then write how they think the conflict should be resolved. 

In small groups of three or four, have the students share what their popsicle sticks had written on them, and how they would solve the problem. 

6. Negotiation Scenario Activity

This is a great conflict resolution activity to help kids understand that there are always different points of view.

Create a conflict scenario where neither of the two parties has all the information about the other party. If both parties negotiate, they can reach a solution that will be good for both of them, but they need to listen to each other to be able to come up with the solution.

An example:

• (Part 1) Two students need the same book for a school essay (for example, “How dinosaurs became extinct”) They only have one day to write their piece, there is only one copy in the school library and neither of them wants to give it up. Let the students discuss how to deal with this conflict
• (Part 2) Provide each student with some additional information: Student A (Annie) would prefer to write about inspiring women role models, but she couldn’t find anything on that topic. Student B (Amanda) loves dinosaurs and is really keen on writing on this topic. On her birthday, she was gifted the Good Night Stories for Rebel Girls book. That could be an excellent choice to inspire Annie’s essay.  Ask the students to go back to the negotiations, and suggest they explore why the other party wishes to write about the chosen topic. Are the solutions different this time

7. Create a Short Story

Ask your students to develop a story that recreates a conflict and how it gets solved.

8. Exploring Feelings

Read aloud to your students a scenario that could bring out different emotions.

It could be something as simple as:

• Scenario 1: parent is late for school pick up, and they are going to miss the football match
• Scenario 2: a classmate declines your invitation for a playdate.  

Have everyone write down how that would make them feel on a 5×8 notecard, then hold it up.

Ask them to share what they have written and learn how the same scenario can bring different feelings in each person:

• a kid may assume their parents got stuck in traffic, while some other may feel they don’t care if they miss sports 
• a student may assume that their friend is very busy, while another may feel their friend doesn’t care and may look for other friendships

Our feelings play an important role in how we deal with a situation.

9. Listening Activity

An important part of conflict resolution is listening to the other side.

Following up on the previous activity, let’s now add new pieces of information

• Scenario 1: there was a big traffic jam, and the parent’s phone was out of battery
• Scenario 2: your friend has swimming lessons on the day you suggested (and since you proposed the same day each time, they kept declining) 

After listening to the other side, how would you approach this argument/conflict?

Related Reading: Listening Games and Activities for Kids

10. Conflict Resolution Writing Prompt

Have your students write out the sentence “I would get into a fight with someone if they tried to take away_________.”

Then have them write down why that item is so important to them that they would want to get into a fight. 

The idea behind this is that they realize that most conflicts aren’t worth it. 

11. Healthy vs. Unhealthy Conflict Resolution

Have your kids write down ways to solve a conflict scenario. They don’t need to be the best solutions. , we are just brainstorming anything that crosses their minds.

Once they have come up with all these solutions, ask them to classify them as healthy vs. unhealthy. 

Tip: Go back to our “healthy ways to deal with conflict” section for some inspiration or examples

12. Conflict Resolution Books for Kids

• Speak Up and Get Along is a chapter book for kids age 8 to 12 and is an excellent resource. 

This social skills book shares twenty-one strategies children can use to end arguments and fights, make friends and stop bullying. It provides age-appropriate examples and lines they can practice and role-play. 

We can’t deal with a conflict if we are feeling overwhelmed with intense feelings. The next suggestions focus on calming down so that we are ready to deal with conflict appropriately

13. Learning to Deal with your Anger

There are many anger management activities that can help kids deal with their emotions. 

Check out the Cool Kid Journal (Anger activities for kids) to explore healthy ways of dealing with anger (it includes 70 gorgeous calm down cards).

14. Practice Taking Deep Breaths

A simple activity for kids of all ages is to practice taking deep breaths when they are upset.

This will help them calm down so that you can discuss a way to deal with the problem. 

Recommended Reading: Fun Breathing Exercises for Kids

15. Model in your own life

Whether you share a story of a time when you needed to resolve conflict or show it in a real-life scenario, adults are the best teachers in explaining conflict resolution.

16. Friendship Activities

If a child in your life seems to be having a hard time staying out of conflict, it might be time to discuss what having a good friend should look like. 

While conflict is a part of life, it doesn’t need to be a daily occurrence throughout elementary school and middle school. Instead, encourage your child to work towards healthy friendships.

Recommended reading: Friendship Activities for Kids (includes a worksheet that explores unhealthy bad signs in a friendship /warning signs /healthy/good signs)

17. Conflict Resolution Journal

Have your kids sit down and journal a personal conflict. Then, have them list out different ways that they can resolve that conflict.

Conflict Resolution Games

A great way to learn new skills is playing.

Let’s take a look at some conflict resolution games:

18. 6 Conflict & Resolution Games This game is not just one game, but several great conflict resolution games.

Let’s check a couple of examples

• Spinning the wheel game presents social scenarios, and you need to provide possible solutions. After you spin the wheel, you need to come up with a solution in one of the following categories: me, other, or all (depending on who benefits from the solution).  This game explores competition and compromising
• “Are you a bully” is a game inspired by the Snake & Ladders setup that presents bullying/mean situations vs. kind social responses

-> Check out this game

19. Social Skills Group Activity

In this game , players need to discuss socially challenging situations. They include boards on six different topics: morals, manners, empathy, friendship, and two boards on emotions (showing and managing them).

The manners game is actually a conflict resolutions game, and the players have to answer questions like:

• you see a friend stealing something from a shop
• you see a friend cheating during a test
• you are served a meal you don’t like at a friend’s house

These types of questions present a perfect opportunity to brainstorm solutions to a conflict and to discuss the size of the problem and whether it is big enough to engage the help of an adult.

And let’s finish our list with a fun video.

20. How to Explain Conflict to Kids (Video)

In this Sesame Street video, our beloved Robin Williams teaches kids the meaning of conflict.

Other Social Skills Resources

These are some helpful resources to help kids build social skills:

• Conflict Res0lution Workbook for Kids
• 25 Problem-Solving Activities for Kids
• I-Statement Worksheets
• Self-Introduction for Kids (Worksheets)
• Social Skills Activities for Kids
• Conversation Starters for Kids
• Listening Games and Activities
• Apology Worksheets and Activities
• Friendship Activities for Kids
• Turn-Taking Activities for Kids
• Fun Emotional Intelligence Activities for Kids

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Nurturing Social Skills: Fun and Effective SEL Activities for Fifth Graders

As children progress through their elementary school years, it becomes increasingly important to focus on their social and emotional development. Fifth grade is a crucial time for nurturing social skills, as children are transitioning into adolescence and facing new challenges in their relationships with peers and adults. In this blog post, we will explore the importance of social skills development in fifth graders, provide an overview of Social Emotional Learning (SEL), and share fun and effective SEL activities specifically designed for fifth graders.

Understanding Fifth Graders’ Social Emotional Needs

Fifth graders often experience social challenges as they navigate the complexities of friendships, peer pressure, and self-identity. They may struggle with conflict resolution, empathy, and self-regulation. Developing strong social skills in fifth grade not only enhances their ability to form positive relationships but also has a significant impact on their academic and personal success.

Research has shown that students with well-developed social skills tend to have higher academic achievement, better classroom behavior, and improved mental health. Incorporating SEL activities in the classroom can help fifth graders develop these essential skills and provide them with a solid foundation for future success.

Fun and Effective SEL Activities for Fifth Graders

1. Activity 1: Role-playing scenarios

Role-playing scenarios allow fifth graders to practice social skills in a safe and controlled environment. This activity helps them develop empathy, perspective-taking, and problem-solving skills. Examples of scenarios to role-play include resolving conflicts, standing up to peer pressure, and expressing emotions effectively.

To implement this activity effectively, divide the class into small groups and provide each group with a scenario. Encourage students to take on different roles and act out the scenario. Afterward, facilitate a discussion to reflect on the experience and explore alternative solutions.

2. Activity 2: Collaborative group projects

Teamwork and collaboration are essential skills for success in school and beyond. Group projects provide fifth graders with opportunities to practice these skills while working towards a common goal. Examples of group projects that promote social skills include creating a class newspaper, organizing a community service project, or designing a board game.

To facilitate successful group projects, establish clear expectations for teamwork, assign roles and responsibilities, and provide guidance and support as needed. Encourage students to communicate effectively, listen to each other’s ideas, and resolve conflicts constructively.

3. Activity 3: Emotion charades

Emotion charades is a fun and engaging activity that enhances fifth graders’ emotional intelligence. In this activity, students take turns acting out different emotions while their peers guess the emotion being portrayed. This activity helps students recognize and understand different emotions, as well as develop empathy and perspective-taking skills.

To play emotion charades, create a list of emotions and write them on separate cards. Have students take turns picking a card and acting out the emotion without using words. Encourage the other students to guess the emotion and discuss why they think it matches the acted-out behavior. After the activity, facilitate a discussion to reflect on the experience and explore strategies for managing different emotions.

4. Activity 4: Mindfulness exercises

Mindfulness exercises promote self-awareness, self-regulation, and overall well-being. Introducing mindfulness to fifth graders can help them manage stress, improve focus and attention, and enhance their ability to handle challenging situations. Mindfulness activities suitable for fifth graders include guided breathing exercises, body scans, and mindful coloring.

To incorporate mindfulness into daily routines, allocate a few minutes each day for mindfulness exercises. Guide students through the exercises, encouraging them to focus on their breath, sensations in their body, or the present moment. After each exercise, provide an opportunity for students to share their experiences and discuss the benefits of mindfulness.

Implementing SEL Activities in the Classroom

Creating a supportive and inclusive classroom environment is essential for the successful implementation of SEL activities. Foster a sense of belonging and respect among students by establishing clear expectations for behavior and promoting positive communication. Encourage students to embrace diversity and appreciate each other’s unique strengths and perspectives.

Integrating SEL activities into the curriculum ensures that social and emotional learning becomes an integral part of students’ daily lives. Look for opportunities to incorporate SEL into various subjects, such as through literature discussions, science experiments, or history projects. This approach allows students to see the relevance of social skills in different contexts and reinforces their learning.

Collaboration with parents and caregivers is crucial for supporting students’ social and emotional development. Share information about the SEL activities being implemented in the classroom and provide resources for parents to continue fostering these skills at home. Encourage open communication and partnership between school and home to ensure a consistent and holistic approach to SEL.

Nurturing social skills in fifth graders is essential for their overall well-being and future success. By incorporating fun and effective SEL activities into the classroom, educators can provide fifth graders with the tools they need to navigate social challenges, develop empathy, and build positive relationships. Start your EverydaySpeech Free trial today and discover a wide range of SEL resources and activities designed specifically for grade 5 students.

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Teaching Social Problem-Solving with a Free Activity

February 3, 2018 by pathway2success 5 Comments

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Kids and young adults need to be able to problem-solve on their own. Every day, kids are faced with a huge number of social situations and challenges. Whether they are just having a conversation with a peer, working with a group on a project, or dealing with an ethical dilemma, kids must use their social skills and knowledge to help them navigate tough situations. Ideally, we want kids to make positive choices entirely on their own. Of course, we know that kids don’t start off that way. They need to learn how to collaborate, communicate, cooperate, negotiate, and self-advocate.

Social problem solving skills are critical skills to learn for kids with autism, ADHD, and other social challenges. Of course, all kids and young adults benefit from these skills. They fit perfectly into a morning meeting discussion or advisory periods for older kids. Not only are these skills that kids will use in your classroom, but throughout their entire lives. They are well worth the time to teach!

Here are 5 steps to help kids learn social problem solving skills:

1. Teach kids to communicate their feelings. Being able to openly and respectfully share emotions is a foundational element to social problem solving. Teaching I statements can be a simple and effective way to kids to share their feelings. With an I statement, kids will state, “I feel ______ when _____.” The whole idea is that this type of statement allows someone to share how their feeling without targeting or blaming anyone else. Helping kids to communicate their emotions can solve many social problems from the start and encourages positive self-expression.

2. Discuss and model empathy. In order for kids to really grasp problem-solving, they need to learn how to think about the feelings of others. Literature is a great way teach and practice empathy! Talk about the feelings of characters within texts you are reading, really highlighting how they might feel in situations and why. Ask questions like, “How might they feel? Why do you think they felt that way? Would you feel the same in that situation? Why or why not?” to help teach emerging empathy skills. You can also make up your own situations and have kids share responses, too.

3. Model problem-solving skills. When a problem arises, discuss it and share some solutions how you might go forward to fix it. For example, you might say, “I was really expecting to give the class this math assignment today but I just found out we have an assembly. This wasn’t in my plans. I could try to give part of it now or I could hold off and give the assignment tomorrow instead. It’s not perfect, but I think I’ll wait that way we can go at the pace we need to.” This type of think-aloud models the type of thinking that kids should be using when a problem comes up.

4. Use social scenarios to practice. Give a scenario and have kids consider how that person might feel in that situation. Discuss options for what that person might do to solve the problem, possible consequences for their choices, and what the best decision might be. Kids can consider themselves social detectives by using the clues and what they know about social rules to help them figure out the solution. These are especially fun in small groups to have kids discuss collaboratively. Use these free social problem solving cards to start your kids off practicing!

5. Allow kids to figure it out. Don’t come to the rescue when a child or young adult has a problem. As long as it’s not a serious issue, give them time to think about it and use their problem-solving skills on their own. Of course, it’s much easier to have an adult solve all the problems but that doesn’t teach the necessary skills. When a child comes to you asking for your help with a social problem, encourage them to think about it for five minutes before coming back to you. By that point, they might have already figured out possible solutions and ideas and might not even need you anymore.

If you are interested in helping your kids learn social problem solving skills right away, consider trying out these Social Problem Solving Task Cards . They highlight real social scenarios and situations that kids can discuss. The scenarios include a variety of locations, such as in classrooms, with family, with friends, at recess, and at lunch. This set is targeted for elementary-age learners.

Of course, older kids need social problem solving skills, too! If you work with older kids, you will love these Social Problem Solving Task Cards for Middle and High School Kids. These situations target age-appropriate issues that come up in classes, with friends, with family, in the hallway, in the cafeteria, and with online and texting.

Remember that teaching social problem skills does take a little bit of planning and effort, but it will be well worth the time! Kids will use these skills to help them make social decisions in their everyday lives now and in the future!

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February 22, 2018 at 12:03 am

Thank you for sharing>

March 3, 2018 at 8:59 am

Good thought ful

March 20, 2018 at 9:24 pm

They are not free

March 21, 2018 at 8:58 am

They are! Here is the link (it’s listed under number 4): https://www.teacherspayteachers.com/Product/Free-Social-Problem-Solving-Task-Cards-2026178 I also have a paid version with a bunch more cards (for both elementary and older kids), but that will give you the freebie. Enjoy!

July 15, 2018 at 3:41 am

Awesome way to teach the skill of social problem solving.

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